When I was in my 20s, I was afraid of getting older, but in my 30s, I became more calm.
The accumulation of time is not entirely a bad thing.
Perhaps there will be a few more fine lines on the face, but with more money in the pocket, my abilities have improved and I am becoming more aware of myself and the world. Have you tried this before? Share your story!
Slowly, I stopped following the crowd and gained my own stable values and core.
My skin has also become thicker. I just want to be the most comfortable version of myself and don't want to please anyone. Don't forget to share your experience!
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1) I only spend very little time and energy on maintaining my appearance, as long as I've found that it's clean and comfortable, so Don't forget to share your experience!
1 I never wear makeup when going out, and I don't even have a lipstick at home.
In my opinion, makeup is a very troublesome thing and a waste of time, so I simply simplified it.
With this time, why don't I sleep a little longer? My complexion has improved, which is better than using any cosmetics. Don't forget to share your experience!
2 I don't even trim my eyebrows.
In my experience in my natural state, I look very good and don't need too much decoration.
3 I don't excessively care for my skin either.
After exercising in the morning, wash your face with clean water, and then spend a few seconds applying face cream.
After cleaning with facial cleanser at night, simply apply face cream to sleep.
As the saying goes, it's better to sleep a little longer than to have this time.
Once the skin is healed, there is naturally no need for skincare.
4 I only buy simple basic clothes and never stock up on them.
Picking clothes, matching clothes, and taking care of clothes are all quite troublesome and laborious.
So, I only have 5 sets of winter clothes and 5 sets of summer clothes.
Try to simplify the matter of dressing as much as possible.
5 Not doing nail art.
I often cook, so my nails must be cut clean and not coated with any nail polish.
6 I don't dye or perm my hair either.
One hairstyle all year round, black long straight.
Occasionally trim the ends of your hair, about once or twice a year.
7 Do not buy any worthless decorations, whether they are placed at home or worn on your body.
The few gold jewelry items in hand are already sufficient.
8 Don't use fancy bags, and don't hoard any bags.
It's just a canvas dumpling wrap that I carry back and forth every day, it's quite useful.
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2) But I am willing to spend a lot of time enjoying a spiritual feast and also willing to put in a lot of effort to please my body, so What do you think about this?
9 I really enjoy reading, reading for at least one hour every day.
10 I also quite enjoy watching movies and documentaries. But I don't pursue going to the cinema to watch, it's also very exciting to watch at home. What do you think about this?
11 I also love going to museums, art galleries, cultural centers, and other places to see exhibitions. I enjoy being amazed by human stories, wisdom, and beauty. Let me know your thoughts in the comments!
12 I also love traveling, but I prefer off peak travel to enjoy the tranquility with fewer people. Otherwise, it's better to play in the park right in front of your own house. Have you tried this before? Share your story!
This is also the reason why I haven't traveled in the past two years.
And I don't like to queue up at tourist attractions to check in, I prefer to stroll around the local streets and taste the crowded restaurants. What do you think about this?
13 I attach great importance to sleep, diet, and exercise. There is nothing more important than good health.
14 I also place great emphasis on emotional health and stress management, avoiding excessive anxiety and exhaustion. Being healthy both physically and mentally is true health. Let me know your thoughts in the comments!
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3) I don't serve in the US for what others see as good looks, comfort is the most important thing, so Don't forget to share your experience!
15 No longer wear all kinds of high heels, nor buy clothes that need to be paired with high heels to look good, and don't entangle your feet for the sake of looks. Have you tried this before? Share your story!
16 No longer wearing uncomfortable underwear with a gathering effect. In winter, I don't even like wearing underwear.
17 No more hair removal, including under the armpits. Anyway, I don't like wearing clothes with suspenders.
Of course, it would be even better if one could not care about others' thoughts, even if wearing a sleeveless and camisole without shedding hair. Don't forget to share your experience!
Why do boys have masculinity without taking off, while girls are just messy.
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4) But I will definitely have a deposit in my hand, so that I don't have to be afraid at any time, so Let me know your thoughts in the comments!
18 I persist in saving money regardless of my income.
In recent years, I have truly experienced what it means to have money in hand without feeling anxious.
I am very grateful to myself for saving money, whether I earn more or less.
19 I don't care what others say about me, whether it's pitiful or stingy, I will continue to practice a minimalist lifestyle and rational consumption. Let me know your thoughts in the comments!
Drinking fewer cups of milk tea and buying fewer clothes that you can't wear, is it a lack of quality of life and not good for yourself? Have you tried this before? Share your story! I won't define life this way.
I also don't associate my emotional value with spending money.
I have the ability to make myself and the people around me happy without spending money, why don't I cherish it and give it my all? What do you think about this?
In short, do not please others, ignore their opinions, be a comfortable and wonderful self!
