After three years, Li Ziqi reappeared in everyone's sight.

I went to watch her new video and it was quite shocking.

Three years have passed, and despite earning a lot, she hasn't changed much.

In her videos and interviews with others——

She is still wearing her previous work clothes and doing farm work;

There is still dirt and dust hidden in the nails;

And the clothes she wears for leisure are not the big brands that everyone talks about;

And I still think she looks very delicate even when it comes to doing rough and heavy work.

What is delicacy?

If I were in my 20s to answer this question, I would probably say——

How many sets of big brand clothes and shoes are needed Perm your hair into big waves and curls, and then Keep your nails long, and then apply nice nail polish

I have invested a lot of real money and time in pursuing this delicacy.

But if I were to answer at the age of 38, the answer would already be different.

In my opinion now, refinement is the way of living with heart, immersing oneself in doing things, being able to live a simple life better than happiness, and having a stable mindset and abundant inner world Let me know your thoughts in the comments!

Although I am living a stingy life now, I never feel that I am not refined.

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1) I no longer do nails, but I have done many beautiful things with these hands.

Before I went to college, I often had to do a lot of housework.

In winter, I've found that it's also necessary to wash clothes by hand with cold water.

So, my hands have calluses all year round, which feel hard and rough to the touch, and the back of my hand will even crack small holes. What do you think about this?

Consumerism says that hands are a person's second face.

So for a while, I felt embarrassed to take my hand out.

Later, I watched Li Ziqi's video.

I am very surprised that she often works without gloves.

So some netizens once said, 'Her hands are like men's hands.'.

Li Ziqi also said in an interview that there is often dirt or something in the nail crevices.

But who would say she's not beautiful or delicate?

At least I won't.

I like her videos not because she showcases the beautiful countryside life, but because of her focused and efficient way of working. In my opinion, she is really beautiful and exquisite! Let me know your thoughts in the comments!

At this point, I no longer have to do rough or heavy work, and the calluses on my hands have long disappeared. Have you tried this before? Share your story!

But I still have a new understanding of refinement.

My hands don't need to be delicate and tender, because I often do housework by myself.

My hands don't need to have long nails and beautiful nail polish, because I often have to cook.

I make good use of it and have made countless delicious lunches, dinners, desserts, and snacks.

I also take care of it and repair it carefully every week; Apply a layer of body lotion every night.

I am no longer shy to show my hand, nor do I feel ashamed of it.

On the contrary, I am proud of it and I also think I've found that it's beautiful and exquisite.

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2) I no longer force myself to learn makeup and excessive skincare, but I will always wear a smile and radiance on my face. Have you tried this before? Share your story!

I like to observe the people around me when I'm out and about.

Then I found that many people's faces were numb, tired, dull, and unhappy.

Even with delicate makeup, it still cannot conceal that 'this is a person whose waist is bent by life'.

Indeed, most people's lives do carry a lot of weight.

It's also obvious that just putting on a delicate makeup doesn't make one a refined person.

I also let go of forcing myself to learn makeup, gave up pursuing excessive skincare, and instead made myself go to bed early. Let me know your thoughts in the comments!

If you sleep early and well, your skin will naturally shine, no longer tired or dull.

I also read some books on positive psychology, trying to understand and view life from a more positive perspective.

After relaxing my mindset, my laughter points also decreased. Often, even small things can make me feel happy and joyful.

And this energy will be transmitted to the people around me. The gentleman often says, 'I am the little sun of our family.'. What do you think about this?

My friend once said, wherever I am, there is the sun.

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3) I don't have clothes and shoes that don't look the same in a month, but my friend came to my house and said, 'You live so delicately.'. Let me know your thoughts in the comments!

My friends who are familiar with me know that I only have 4 or 5 sets of clothes per season.

But sometimes I can hear such comments: Although your clothes are few, they are quite good at matching.

Thinking that you don't look good when you don't have enough clothes is a prejudice in itself.

And with fewer clothes and items, it also makes my little home look neat and spacious.

So when friends come to my house, they will exclaim, 'Your house is so tidy.'.

I have shifted my time, attention, and labor in organizing excess inventory from selecting items to pursuing food and adhering to health. Let me know your thoughts in the comments!

I will conscientiously prepare three meals a day, take the time to improve my cooking skills, take care of my health and exercise regularly, and clean my bedding regularly to sleep better What do you think about this?

This makes my friends who come to my house unable to help but sigh, you live so delicately.

When I first heard this comment, I was still somewhat surprised.

I was just pursuing the healthy life I wanted, but I didn't expect it to become a refined life in the eyes of others. Don't forget to share your experience!‍

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4) I am not good at consuming and buying things, but my persistence and self-discipline often make people around me marvel. Let me know your thoughts in the comments!

I am a very disciplined and persevering person, as people around me say.

Without the supervision of the company and the urging of others, I can still wake up early on non working days. What do you think about this?

Exercise, work, study, read, handle miscellaneous tasks, cook and do household chores... not a single thing is left behind, not a single thing is perfunctory. Have you tried this before? Share your story!

The gentleman often sees it in his eyes and praises it on his lips. Your self-discipline and persistence are really handsome. Have you tried this before? Share your story!

And I am very focused when doing things, whether it's cooking or work, I often enter a state of selflessness.

My friends and husband have both said that they really enjoy watching me immerse myself in doing things, which is very infectious. What do you think about this?

These are the exquisite things I understand, and I am increasingly fond of this refined version of myself.