A few days ago, a netizen asked me: What's the point of saving so much money? Do you spend your whole life striving for risks that may not necessarily exist? Don't forget to share your experience!
I am thinking that the person who can ask this sentence is probably someone who has not encountered any difficulties or sorrows in their life so far. What do you think about this?
How fortunate I've found that it's to be blessed and protected by fate and family.
But not everyone, not every life, has such luck.
Compared to the bumpy lives of many people, perhaps my experience is not rough, but I have indeed felt heartbroken about money. What do you think about this?
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That year, my husband and I just got married.
We made a wrong choice before marriage.
I gave up the foundation of living in Guangzhou for 9 years (including attending university) and decided to accompany my husband back to his hometown to start over. Let me know your thoughts in the comments!
I didn't expect that my salary in Guangzhou could be seven or eight thousand.
When I arrived at a small county town in Hebei, I couldn't even find a job with a salary of 2000 yuan. Don't forget to share your experience!
I quickly realized that this was a wrong decision and I wanted to return to Guangzhou.
At that time, my husband had already found a logistics job in his hometown, so I left for Guangzhou myself first. Let me know your thoughts in the comments!
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At that time, I had already vacated the house in Guangzhou and sold half of the furniture and appliances.
That means I have no place to stay in Guangzhou.
I can only borrow from friends who live in urban villages.
I had already said hello to my friend in advance, but on the day I returned to Guangzhou, she told me that her boyfriend was coming to stay for a while and it was not convenient for her to take me in. What do you think about this?
But she Help me rent a small single room next door for a month.
In this small single room, there is nothing but a worn-out bed board.
I bought a set of bedding downstairs temporarily and settled in.
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The houses in urban villages have very narrow building spacing.
Reaching out from the window, as if shaking hands with someone from the opposite building.
This also leads to poor lighting in the room, coupled with the cramped space of the small single room, making people feel inexplicably depressed. Let me know your thoughts in the comments!
Especially at night, as the sun sets, people's emotions can become more depressed.
I still remember the first night when I lay on that shaky bed, afraid to even flip over, afraid of falling myself. What do you think about this?
I can't sleep for a long time, the rudimentary environment makes me feel heartbroken, and the bleak future makes me anxious and uneasy. Have you tried this before? Share your story!
You should know that when I first graduated, I had never lived in a house with such poor conditions. Anyway, there was a significant psychological gap. What do you think about this?
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At that time, I had been working for 5 or 6 years and was not a novice girl.
But as someone who doesn't have the habit of saving money, I can't even afford to stay in a hotel to get through this turning point. Let me know your thoughts in the comments!
The only 10000 yuan in hand, some of which are borrowed, will be used to rent a new house, pay the deposit, and find a job to eat next. Have you tried this before? Share your story!
In short, my mood was very bad during those days.
Thinking that I am almost 30 years old, Still empty handed, unable to provide oneself with a better life.
Thinking about people my age, some of whom have already bought houses and cars, I feel even more uneasy.
I'm not trying to compare myself to others, but rather my mindset is no longer young at this moment.
This may not be a big deal when I first graduated, but after working for several years, I can't help but ask myself: What have I been doing these years? What do you think about this?
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This experience has made I deeply understand what it means to stop with your hand and stop with your mouth.
I also deeply understand that during periods without income, if there is no savings as a transition, you may not even be able to take care of yourself. What do you think about this?
To be honest, I don't want to repeat that experience again.
This is also one of the driving forces behind my efforts to save money.
You never know what difficulties you will encounter on your way forward.
But I hope I don't have to feel embarrassed again because I don't have money.
Of course, I won't spend my whole life striving for risks that may not necessarily exist?
Saving money and living well in the present are never contradictory.
I am very satisfied with my current life and also satisfied with having savings in my pocket.
