This is also my money saving secret.

Come, read it with me again, always live in the world with self centeredness.

Not only can it help us save a lot of money, but it can also make our lives more comfortable and free. Don't forget to share your experience!

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1) Pay less attention to others and more attention to your own needs.

Many times we have a strong desire to consume because we care too much about what others wear, use, buy, or share. Have you tried this before? Share your story!

This person could be a friend, colleague, relative, or an online blogger.

I also experienced the stage of liking to pay attention to others when I was young.

It is easy to plant grass and buy various items - such as perfume, aromatherapy, skin care products, clothes, jewelry, etc. What do you think about this?

No wonder at that time every moon was "moonlight".

These things were bought and used well, which can be considered as realizing their value.

But they were not bought from my needs.

For example, there are still half a bottle of perfume. It has been many years since then.

The half bottle that was used up is only occasionally remembered as being sprayed in the room to consume it.

On the other hand, excessive attention to others can also be easily exploited by others.

In fact, many of the things that bloggers buy are not satisfactory.

The clothes that are praised to the sky have a quality that is not inferior, but the price is not cheap. Don't forget to share your experience!

Fortunately, I have finally learned not to be a scapegoat now.

The secret is also very simple, which is to focus more on one's own needs.

Slowly, I will be able to stop showing off to others and be tempted, even if I am tempted, I will not act recklessly. Don't forget to share your experience!

It's like seeing someone wearing beautiful jewelry, I still feel tempted.

But the next second I realized I didn't need it, because I'm someone who feels uncomfortable even wearing a wedding ring. Let me know your thoughts in the comments!

So, I can be tempted and praised, but I don't have to have it.

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2) Not comparing food, clothing, and expenses, only starting from one's own reality.

I may be the worst performing relative on my mother's side.

Every time I come home, my mom likes to talk to me about which cousin bought a bigger and more expensive house than me, and which cousin spent how much money on what good things. Have you tried this before? Share your story!

I always listen with my left ear and listen with my right ear.

I know how many pounds and how many taels I weigh, and my husband and I can only afford to buy old and small ones in Guangzhou. What do you think about this?

I tidy them up very well and live comfortably, very satisfied.

I don't envy or compare myself to others. I choose what suits me based on my own reality.

I don't like living a life that I can't afford. It makes me feel burdened and may lead to resentment and anxiety. What do you think about this?

I'm pretty sure this won't be the life I want.

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3) Don't worry too much about what others think, your own comfort is the most important.

After I fell in love with minimalism, I only kept 4-5 sets of clothes per season.

The appearance rate of each set of clothes is very high, so I've found that it's inevitable that some people will say: Why do you wear the same clothes every day? Don't be so stingy with yourself, okay? Have you tried this before? Share your story!

I just listen to it every time and don't take it to heart, so I won't rush to buy two more clothes because of it. Don't forget to share your experience!

Life is one's own.

I enjoy the relaxation and freedom brought by a minimalist lifestyle more than wearing different clothes every day.

In recent years, due to my minimalist lifestyle, I have also saved a lot of money, which has brought me a great sense of security and satisfaction. What do you think about this?

In my opinion, these benefits and significance are much more important than others' perspectives.

So, I won't waver in my beliefs because of others' opinions.

Last year and this year, many people have complained to me that their income has decreased or they have lost their jobs, and they feel anxious looking at their monthly bills. What do you think about this?

I have actually been unemployed for some time now.

I'm not afraid to tell you that the job I like doesn't look up to me, and I don't want to do the job that looks up to me. Don't forget to share your experience!

So, I decided to take a break for a while first.

Many people believe that life is short, so they should buy whatever they want.

But In my experience that life is short, and one should have the ability to rest whenever they want.

I don't want my beautiful years to be dedicated only to jobs I don't like.