01

Self respect is the cornerstone of interpersonal communication






How you treat yourself, others will treat you. Respect oneself and earn respect.






02

Kindness requires a bottom line






Helping others without laziness, rescuing the urgent without saving the poor, kindness without means is foolish compassion.






03

Shallow friendship but deep words






When the friendship is still shallow, do not reveal your true feelings. Keeping the city government is a wise move.






04

The Truth About Party Topics






Where crowds gather, showing off, belittling, and stirring up trouble always follow closely.






05

Respect the art of lower level people






When dealing with low-level people, maintain a moderate distance and respect does not mean indulgence.






06

Balance between Money and Life






Life requires money, but money is not everything in life. Make money first, then talk about choices.






07

The malice behind intimacy






Be wary of seemingly intimate people around you, they may be weaving malice behind your back.






08

Truth can hurt people, but playing cards can be fatal






Don't reveal your trump card, truth often hurts people. Keep it mysterious and protect yourself.






09

The essence of harm






The people who hurt you are all intentional. They weigh the pros and cons and choose to harm you because the cost is minimal. What do you think about this?






ten

Successful Solitude






The joy of success, savored alone. Unless you can share the fruits of victory, remain silent.






eleven

Cognitive differences and arguments






Don't argue, because of different perceptions. Facing different viewpoints, smile in response without arguing.






twelve

Changes in power






Once vision is restored, blind people will throw away their crutches. When power changes, people's hearts also change accordingly.






thirteen

Value determines treatment






When you are worthless, even if you are gentle like a cat, you will be despised by others. Value determines your treatment. Don't forget to share your experience!






fourteen

The contradiction of human nature






Give one dollar a day, don't give it, hate it; Give a slap every day, and be grateful if you don't. Human nature is so contradictory. Have you tried this before? Share your story!






fifteen

The luxury of sending charcoal in the snow






Don't expect others to lend a helping hand in times of need. It's already fortunate not to add insult to injury. What do you think about this?






sixteen

know by oneself whether I've found that it's cold or warm






When you eat dirt, no one asks for bitterness, but when you eat meat, someone always asks for fragrance. Life's ups and downs can only be known through self-awareness. Don't forget to share your experience!






sixteen

The Double Standards of Human Nature






Find faults in those who have no power and no influence, and find advantages in those who have power and influence. The dual standards of human nature are evident. Don't forget to share your experience!






sixteen

The Secret of Finance






Don't share your financial situation, wealth attracts jealousy, poverty attracts contempt. Not revealing one's wealth is a wise move.






sixteen

Turned over mercilessly






People who turn their faces over, regardless of their closeness, cannot go back to the past. When you turn your face, it's the moment when your true self is exposed. Let me know your thoughts in the comments!






sixteen

The complexity of human nature






Everyone is half human and half ghost, too close for anyone to see clearly. Only by accepting the complexity of human nature can we live in harmony. Let me know your thoughts in the comments!







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